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Question (Anonymous):
Please am getting tired of this relationship:

We met each other on FB and I love this girl. But the problem here is that she has suddenly changed recently. Before, she calls me at least 5 times a day but now she stays without calling. I tried not to call her and expect her call but she never did. For two days now she has not called. The last time I called her, she apologized for not living up to her expectation and promised she will.

I am still watching her yet no change. I love her so much but will not be hurt so much if I should forget her. Before, she tells me most of her secrets but now she even go out and stay till 9pm without telling me. She used to beg me to come and take her to hospital when she's sick which I don't normally do because of my busy days. I could have done so if not cos of my little time. But I spend for her. I don't care giving her any amount of money I have. I can even stay hungry provided she is not lacking financially.

Now this is what i get in return. I’ve been sick since three days now but she doesn't care to know how am doing.

Do you think I’ve done something wrong? Is there where am not meeting up? 

Answer:
I don’t think you are doing anything wrong. I know you are doing everything wrong.
How can the lady be the one keeping in touch with you all the time? What happens to you being the man in the relationship? You are supposed to provide for her (forget all the rubbish talk of – I can’t spend on a girl).

She wanted you to take her to the hospital and you were too busy and now you want her to care that you are sick.

My dear, you have succeeded in pushing her away from loving you and I am guessing she has accepted her fate and moved on without you of course.

You said you are watching her and she hasn’t changed whereas, she is the one doing the watching.

You need to find her, apologize profusely and start being a man.

Thanks


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