Question (Anonymous):
There's this guy I've
been seeing for some time now. When we first met I knew he wasn't my typical
kind of guy but he had prospects so I agreed to date him. Now I regret the
whole relationship because, we rarely have anything to talk about when we are
together, sex with him is the most TERRIBLE experience I have ever had plus
he's stingy. All of these are enough reasons to break up with him but then I
work for him, even though he's not paying me right now I know once he hammers I'll
be made! What do I do?
Answer:
My unbiased answer is - wait until he hammers and you are made and then break up with him peacefully.
Reasons been that, if you break up with him now, you might (80% chance) be sacked and trust me, even my take-home doesn't take me home let alone having to feed an extra mouth. So my dear questioner, my opinion is don't lose both ways.
It is bad enough you decided to date him, it will be worse off if you break up with him now and he hammers tomorrow but on the other hand, if you have another option of a job, kindly resign first then break up with him. In this case, you will not be working for him but you would have your dignity intact.
Thanks for asking
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