I am 26, married and blessed with a
wonderful son.. Yes my marriage is still new but I am having a lot of
challenges that is eating me up. Since I got married, my husband has never made
love to me for up to 5 minutes. I have talked with him severally and still no improvements. I have taught him different
techniques so as not to ejaculate fast. If I insist on foreplay for at least
3mins before penetrating, he cums on the bed. I am starving as have not enjoyed
sex with him since we got married. Sometimes after sex I just sit and cry. He
can stay 2 months without sex. I did not know he was like this because we
practiced no sex before marriage. My baby will soon be 4 months and soon we
will start sex again. I have this fear in me that it will still be the same
him. Please advise me cos am hurting. Do u think he is cheating on me? How do I
change this for good? Please I really need sharp blunt advice.
Answer:
Hello worried questioner, first let
me say, you are very normal for complaining and wanting more from your sexual
experience.
I also need to reiterate that because your hubby cannot satisfy you in bed doesn't imply he is cheating – in fact the
more reason he won’t be able to cheat is because he can’t perform (I guess you’re
happy now)
Now back to your concern, it
could be normal for your hubby to cum early and it could be a medical
situation.
First, try and get him used to
seeing you naked and having fun without penetration. This will help him to
adjust his brain to the fact that he doesn't have to cum every time he is
aroused.
Second, you might need to talk to
him and plead with him to see medical personnel as there are treatments for
such and they have basically no side effects.
Above all, let me advise you to
never suspect your husband of cheating unless you have concrete evidence (this
evidence must be tangible not hearsay). Jumping into conclusions most times is
the only problem most marriages have.
Thanks
#ActLikeYouKnow
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